本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛看了Paper的文章,才知道there is an Chinese dancing party once every two weeks around the neighbour hood. I went there recently, looks like there were more nice ladies there than guys. I also noticed the issue mentioned in Paper's article, but I am sure it's getting better now cause I just smelled various odor such as strawberry, alcohol, mint, smoke, etc. But I DO hate some behaviour like:

- using one finger pointing to you for inviation;
- right hand is 打拍子 around your waist during dancing;
- keep on asking ladies personal inforamtion during dancing, guys should know if the lady is interested in you or (just) want to make one more friend, she will leave her email address or phone number for further contact, and who will do that if you don't introduce yourself first !

Dancing is a good exercise, I started to love it and go when it falls in Sat. night. For single people, it's a nice place to make more friends and having some fun. We do need some small talk to break the ice, I can't list all the interesting talk here, but one is very impressive, "Is your husband in China? " Come on baby, that's not the way to find if the lady is single or not. Now you know who I am, I am sure you can do better next time when we dance again :-).更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net